I noticed that so few people will break out of the abusive cycle, instead they prefer to KEEP you in their sad club, safety in numbers etc. It takes SUPER strong people to break out, YOU need to find that strength.

Even highly qualified people like doctors, solicitors, police, pilots etc can get controlled by narcs. Narcissists are everywhere and they will often keep quiet to protect other narcs.

Victims are victims, STOP being a victim.

They are ENABLERS

Friends, brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, children, aunts, uncles etc that stand by KNOWING someone they know is being mentally or physically abused need stand together and

SPEAK OUT

Make it so the ABUSER has NO WAY OUT