When a narcissist man tries to control a non-narcissist man all it does is create annoyance. This has happened to me too many times.

What I wanted to do is knock them down until they stopped but out of love and respect for my loved ones all I could do was repeatedly ask them to stop, they never did, I had to put up with their behaviour for decades. UNTIL I FINALLY BROKE.

People that enable mental abuse need to UNDERSTAND that YOU should have stepped in, YOU DID NOTHING. YOU gave scapegoats no choice, put the abusers down or walk away.

YOU ARE TO BLAME FOR letting mental abusers ruin your loved ones lives.

Entire families should stand together to stop the abusers, then you can have a proper functioning family.

The ball is in your court, only you can change this.